Divorce + seperation

resources + support

Divorce + separation resources in Santa Barbara + Ventura + virtually in California

Where to start?

When you are up at 3am struggling in your breastfeeding journey, curious if the tears are from the intrusive thoughts if your baby is breathing or the fact that you are struggling to sleep, let alone have time to process your challenging birth or newfound changes of parenthood….the LAST thing you want to do is search google, read every review for providers and then take the time consuming task of reaching out. We are cutting out the hours of complicated detective work.
Where to begin

The names listed below are individuals who we have either been highly vetted through previous clients collaborations and successful healing, or are personally screened by the team at Thrive in an individual interview/consultation process. If you have a poor experience with a provider, please let us know so we can support in facilitating the appropriate care you need.
Integrative community care

Navigating mental health challenges can be extremely isolating and insular. Having a collaborative team of providers communicating, advocating and supporting you can be key to expediting your healing + process. Whether you work with us or a provider on the list, ask them to sign a release of information to collaborate on care - orchestrating a team providing therapy, prescribing medication, or facilitating physical rehabilitation in collaboration with your treatment at Thrive.

The below list a culmination of referrals and resources that have come highly recommended

While we can’t specifically endorse an entity, we are passionate about creating a space to find options quickly, as often separation + divorce can be destabilizing and challenging to navigate

Separation can be isolating, support can feel fragmented, our hope is to bridge the disconnect and provide onramps to integrative care

Support groups hosted by Thrive:

Single parent support group

Parallel parenting support group:

an attachment based framework exploring your process of parenting with the lived experiences you journeyed through growing up

We look at values, attachment styles, and in this specific framework — we lean into lessons from divorce, separation and the legacy of love we want to impart and impact our children with

Solo parent support group

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October 3-7  |  Starting at $500

Stay connected for upcoming support groups + offerings

The best referrals, are the one’s that are trusted and have proven supportive in the past

If you had a positive experience with a divorce resource that isn’t listed here, please share so we can include it in our directory

Where to begin:

We offer a range of solutions designed to meet your needs—whether you're just getting started or scaling something bigger. Everything is tailored to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—we’ll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions along the way.
We combine a thoughtful, human-centered approach with clear communication and reliable results. It’s not just what we do—it’s how we do it that sets us apart.
You can reach us anytime via our contact page or email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.
We offer flexible pricing based on project type and complexity. After an initial conversation, we’ll provide a transparent quote with no hidden costs.
Collaborative, honest, and straightforward. We're here to guide the process, bring ideas to the table, and keep things moving.

Family law:

Here, creativity meets opportunity. Whatever you're building, we're here to help you take the first step with confidence. Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together.

Mediation

Here, creativity meets opportunity. Whatever you're building, we're here to help you take the first step with confidence. Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together.

Kristi Miller

Financial Advisors

Here, creativity meets opportunity. Whatever you're building, we're here to help you take the first step with confidence. Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together.

Kristi Miller

Will + Trust Formation

Here, creativity meets opportunity. Whatever you're building, we're here to help you take the first step with confidence. Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together.

Kristi Miller

Support groups:

Here, creativity meets opportunity. Whatever you're building, we're here to help you take the first step with confidence. Driven by curiosity and built on purpose, this is where bold thinking meets thoughtful execution. Let’s create something meaningful together.

Scarlet D Support Group

Court mandated therapy:

Driven by passion, grounded by values. We're a team of passionate thinkers and doers, dedicated to building with purpose and clarity. Collaboration and curiosity drive everything we do.

Social onramps:

We're a team of passionate thinkers and doers, dedicated to building with purpose and clarity. Collaboration and curiosity drive everything we do.
We believe in keeping things simple, smart, and human. Every project starts with listening and ends with something we're proud to share.
From startups to seasoned brands, we partner with people who care about doing things right—and doing them well.

Ventura specific resources:

Still have questions? Take a look at the FAQ or reach out anytime. If you’re feeling ready, go ahead and apply.

We offer a range of solutions designed to meet your needs—whether you're just getting started or scaling something bigger. Everything is tailored to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—we’ll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions along the way.
We combine a thoughtful, human-centered approach with clear communication and reliable results. It’s not just what we do—it’s how we do it that sets us apart.
You can reach us anytime via our contact page or email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.
We offer flexible pricing based on project type and complexity. After an initial conversation, we’ll provide a transparent quote with no hidden costs.

Santa Barbara specific resources:

Still have questions? Take a look at the FAQ or reach out anytime. If you’re feeling ready, go ahead and apply.

We offer a range of solutions designed to meet your needs—whether you're just getting started or scaling something bigger. Everything is tailored to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—we’ll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions along the way.
We combine a thoughtful, human-centered approach with clear communication and reliable results. It’s not just what we do—it’s how we do it that sets us apart.
You can reach us anytime via our contact page or email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.
We offer flexible pricing based on project type and complexity. After an initial conversation, we’ll provide a transparent quote with no hidden costs.

Other avenues of healing, help and integrative care

While the resources listed so far are incredibly supportive and nourishing onramps for mental health support, we’d be remiss to not include other avenues of healing, help and integrative care. This is a living document, so if you have a positive experience with a provider and would like to share their details, or if you are a provider yourself and would like to be included or create a new category of care - please reach out!